Thanksgiving: Thoughts
In class, we spoke briefly about how thanksgiving went for several people and thoughts about marriages. I am Nigerian and discussions about marriage in the Nigerian community is often had and extremely guided. Marriage is equated to wealth, support and true happiness. Many believe that you have not truly lived or experienced life if you are not married and do not have children of your own. Not all Nigerians believe this, but many do. In this post I am only speaking from experience and some of the ideas that have been ingrained in my mind growing up. Now, I do understand why marriage can be important, life changing and essential. Although this is the case for many, it is not the case for all. Someone in class stated that he/she did not believe in marriage at all. I wanted to inquire more and find out why but decide d that might not have been the best use of class time. Not everyone gets married because they are in pursuit of unending love and eternal happiness, some pe...